Romatic weather! Kolkata! Isn’t it!

Ok! Two day official trip turns out to be a 10 days or more. Luckily i don’t have to worry much as my brother lives here, so a place is always there for me to reside, no worries about spicy junk.
Woo! What a weather! Isn’t it beautiful or kind of romantiic for lovebies and a perhaps a proper hangout plan for rookie people.. Well i fall into last category but but but single in every stage here.. No Girlfriend no friends umm brother also not in town! What should i do! Where should i go to make this day a memorable moment. Eesh.. Don’t want to stress my think tank much. Probably i can ask my colleague to have a couple of drinks post office hours in a nearby bar to my house. Or I can go alone for a late night latest movie.. Or just sit and relax at home watch some cricket.. I don’t want to make my life a boring movie scene. OMG i am bit pissed off. I really need a gang of goons to celebrate my life in different ways.. Well I am still waiting for that thing.. But i don’t think i will or they will find me soon.. Friends of my age are getting married and settking down themselves these day and my think tank says don’t get trapped in this shit as I won’t be able to handle myslef with the boundations of responsibilities. Yes! I don’t want any load of responsibility upon my head.. Else i will be crushed under them and won’t be able to achieve my dreams of becoming a successful entrepreneur..
Why kolkata! Something really interesting for me in this city! Right! As per previous visits.. I have always got something (good things actually) whenever I am in this city. My first job finalised post my visit. Current job too finalised here.. And few bad lucks turns into good one again post visiting this city.
So! Should i start my business from here or from Delhi! I think i don’t know as of now. I am in dreamworld right now just dreaming about the good time after 2-3years.. And this time I have to turn those dreams into reality.. I will. And change the things how people see and perceive…

By: Mr. Nobody

Exploring strengths: What’s better hidden inside you!

Time is to write a new story or I must say my new experience which I had today. This story is somehow connected to my previous post. Today I explored myself in many arenas of my life and got to know that I have something that was hidden for a quite long time just because I really didn’t have the courage in past open up myself. Today I did that and results came out to be positive or I must say made me delighted. So, What happened actually! This is about an interview scheduled for today for some marketing job. Well, let me tell you about my CV/Resume first as it is the base of the story. So, 3 jobs in 4 years span and all in different industries, all unconnected as per their nature, additionally I lack the stability factor in my every job, common question in any interview but tough one to crack when odds are against you. I don’t know what came into me during my interview with HR, I convinced her with my communication skills, and my knowledge about concepts and how can I be a fit to their organization. All this I did it without any reference unlike the advantage I had in my all previous interviews. Today was the real me, confident, bold, daring, at-least more than what I used to be earlier.

I cleared the HR round that went for around 25 minutes confirming myself for the 2nd round with GM sales to be held on same day. As expected, GM just had a look on resume and had a laugh with HR regarding my current industry experience (i.e. less than 6 months) and then the interview started. To his surprise, a guy who always found himself in defensive position during interviews turned his gears into deceive manner just like a batsman chasing a huge target plays to win. Yeah! I cleared all his doubts with my convincing skills of knowledge and in-depth knowledge about the marketing concepts. In the end, everything was pleasant, refreshing me and highly confident that this could be a right platform for me to showcase my right talent. He greeted me and was delighted I guess so and said that “you shall have to meet our director soon for finalization” and I replied that will be my pleasure. Just before I was about to leave the office building, HR came to me and said that ” I will confirm you by today if shortlisted for final round and be available day after tomorrow in 2nd half” and same reply I gave to her. Within 10 minutes after leaving the office, I got a call from HR to come for finalization on day after tomorrow. Wow! All this I did just myself with my experience and confidence. Lets see what will happen day after tomorrow but for me this is really a big achievement for me as of now, may be first time or I must say today I felt it is real me. you can climb huge mountains with your strengths. Go and find them and explore your strengths, may be not today but someday you will find it. Never ever give up! Just stay calm and be focused and have right approach.

So finally,I lost this battle, not able to crack the final round. I guess It could be because of my current salary v/s expected salary issue or something else, they knew better. Its ok! at-least I tried and met with failure. In some way happy I am. Rise again and then go for next one. never give up should be the penultimate goal in anyone’s life. Stay calm and work hard. Goodluck to me!

By: Mr. Nobody

Dilemma or helplessness: Can’t Judge

Have you ever found yourself into a situation where you are bound by numerous conditions to opt for the decision that you really can’t digest? Hell thing to decide! yeah a weird situation where you lost your touch with the surface rather you are buried under it crying and hoping to get a ray of light to take you home. No, not impossible at that point of time. because you are helpless. Nowhere to go! Nothing in hand, I mean no Plan-B. So what should we do? A small question with no favorable answer taking your side. We will come back to this question later.

After quitting 2 jobs in different fields, and I am into my 3rd Job with another field, profile is almost same if we consider the nature but the work is totally opposite to each other. I don’t have any issues pertaining to work in different field, but should be enough to give me peace of mind. Well you expect something and get something opposite in return as usual. Now, here I am! 3rd Job could be gone within next 10 days if I didn’t say the company magic words “yes, I will” I am into dilemma right now whether I should go for 4th or should I continue this current one knowingly If opted to continue, there won’t be homecoming anymore or could be harsh landing with negative impact on my loved ones. They are by my side but I can’t see them in trouble and same that they don’t want to see me in trouble after opting for the decision. May be my comfort zone is more better than anything else, I already have quit my half of my comfort zone in last one year and became a very calm man imparting inspirational and logical messages to people. I know, i have inherited this from my experiences or should I say by getting continuous butt-kicks. It pains me a lot but I laugh as i am gained some strength now to fight. Now I am a very confident person, with less fears in me of facing people. I think, I am distracted from the current topic. yeah may be or may be not.

Actually this is the real dilemma! Isn’t it, You think something else and you do something else. Or you are little helpless you are not able to choose the path. Well! I am not able judge what this is right now, My mind has stopped working considering the juggling going in my brain. Will come up sometime back soon here!

Upon someone special advice, I decided to give it a try for atleast for the first phase and then will decide for next step in due course of time. Phew! it will help me at-least to cover my survival expenses by not making me jobless for few months or meanwhile I will try to crack some interview with another company if conditions favors. Let’s see what gonna be the outcome in the end. Not at all hopeful of any miracle. Feeling little tired just because of my imbalanced mind today. Time is hard and lets face the reality on my own. I really don’t want this time to have any negative impact on someone’s job just because of me. Will come harder with time and during this phase will build up myself stronger and even better and gain some more life experiences to add up into my kitty. Yikes! How much Calm I am today! So much frustration inside me eating continuously. Just trying my better part to stop the flooding of anger on someone. I think I will have to take help of some booze today. Yeah! I know its “Navratre” festival here where family rituals stops people from drinking and eating non-veg even onion in your meals. Its ok, i won’t share this with my family, secret kind of thing I will do. Ahhh! I am gonna have a good sleep after booze if only I get little high. and I should get high Huh!  Trust me darling I will come harder next time.

 

By: Mr. Nobody

A Mistake: That Can’t be undone!

We do make mistakes in our life from our early childhood days till we are buried inside inside a coffin for a never ending sleep. But in our early childhood days, impacts of mistakes are way less than we have to face when we enter into our adulthood. When you are into your teen-age, you don’t have to bother majorly for anything, no stress, nothing to push your think tank for consequences. But once you are out of your teen-age, and enters into your adulthood, you have borrowed lots of responsibilities on you and a big load is there on your young shoulders embarking you take step wisely, else you will have to see defeat, a situation where you are hopeless, restless may be you come into depression or even worse. you have to be patient whatever the situation and unfavorable factors prevail at that moment. These mistakes can’t be undone. You will imagine one dream Is there any tool/technology/any method to go into your past and undone this” The strict answer is NO”  . This is impossible at this time, may be if possible we develop some technology in future somehow.

Let bygones be bygones! What is the best method to overcome this affect on you! Well theoretically numerous, but the way you implement one of the method that matters a lot. You just can’t rely on others to help you out of this bad cream. Its only you who have to put enough strength into you to come out, Yes! you can take support of your loved one’s or strangers or anything that gives you boost to start again.

We always learn from our mistake done in past and try not to repeat the same next time. But we are a big failure in this learning. though we practically, but we will develop a theory inside our mind to make that mistake again but this time outcome will be positive. Knowingly you do this mistake and again the impact puts you on the same spot where you started-off.

Knowingly the impact, I too did 1 mistake and kept repeating. The impact was as worse as hell. Lost my inner strength, found myself in state of frustration and irritation all the time. Wanted to run away and hide somewhere with no GPS connection to track me out. Is this the solution, No! not at all! but could be a temporary solution so that you can get enough strength to face again the challenge. may be you should start again from scratch, i know, Its not easy to start again once you have kissed the sky and now you are at Bottom of earth. It will take time to be a big winner again yet surely are the winner as you have already won a battle against yourself. you will never forget the mistake but once you have accomplished the task of raising yourself, you will laugh on those mistakes but only you can know the pain inside those laughs.

Keep doing mistakes and learn from them! never ever back down. Stay alive in this race! you don’t have to be winner for others, but for yourself, it matters and keep challenging yourself all the times regardless of conditions. With time, you will have enough strength to push you forward again and again. Never forget one thing “Time is your best cure”

Why we need to talk about bitter things when we so much of positive things in life to cheer up. Eesh! bitter things just ruins the moment and turns into a black hole. and push you into a world with full of negative thoughts.

God-dam! Why I opted that decision? You don’t believe in astrology! Do you? Sometimes. A sidelined astrologer told me you did a mistake by quitting your last assignment and till date, his words seems to be true as I am facing lots of troubles in my life, may be its a storm that I was not able to predict during my decision making process and now I can realize the World is not bad, It gives you plenty of chances to rectify your mistakes, but its upto you to take the right decision at right point of time, else you will have to suffer with consequences and will push you black hole with negative thought process. So, I am waiting for life to again give me the chance to stand back and come again , this time even more stronger than I used to be. Em preparing myself for that day to come and yeah, so do everyone needs to prepare themselves. You can’t ride a huge mountain in single day unless you have some extra support like jet-pack or something that flies you high and put above on the that mountain. The conclusion is wait for the Jet-pack or find it to boost up your life again and again. you will come stronger with each and each every mistake you do in your life. Repeat the mistakes unless you conquer them. Mistakes are like your demons in your dreams. Face them, fight them, and win over them, once you conquered them, you will be brave enough to fight for your next challenges and bitter things will become history of your life or you will write your own history and won’t become just history.

Taking the sweet things from the above, I am moving on in my life for better life and supporting my family.

I love you HK and won’t forget what you taught me.  Thanks!

 

 

By: Mr. Nobody

HK: a dream I Opt to quit

This post is about my experience of Hong Kong life. A city usually that never sleeps. You will see people roaming on roads at all times whatever the weather conditions even if it is Level-8 warning issued by HK meteorological department or hot summer. Though it will be less in numbers because of some safety regulations. When i first see those people, I just imagine how much fit they are! defying their real age no. HK is quite expensive city that’s why it  has been ranked 2nd most expensive city in the world after Singapore.  I guess, only the Food and home is expensive including medical, nor public transportation neither your beer, Well 1 can of beer is even cheaper that what you have to pay in India for it. I actually love this part, I know I am little fond of Boozing beer. Government of HK do take care of their residents very well at-least much better than other Big size countries. Descent people, nobody will bother what you are doing, unless you are doing some criminal type things. Great place to go for shopping for shopoholics.

Must visit places include Ladies market situated in Mong-Kok (Kowloon) area. Friday-Saturday-Sunday, best days to visit this street. If your are good bargainer then its the real test for you there. Amazing street food, 36″ inches pizza, usually you get 12″ inches as large size in India.  Have a beer on street but don’t litter apart from bins else you will be fined for HK$ 5000, pretty heavy charges even if you spit and got caught. Luckily, I never got caught. Sigh! You will find lots of Indian restaurants. Chunking mansions (Tsim Sha Tsui) known for South Asian migrations. Here, you can have real Indian-Pakistani-Bangladeshi feel, nowadays African also added into it. Samosa-Chai-Gol-Gappa-Biryani-etc.. choose the right one else you will hate the taste. Buy Mobile sim card at cheap rates, Customs Cigarettes packs almost 40-60% cheaper rates from Seven Eleven Shops..

Near to it, there is Victoria harbor, cool breeze to give you relaxing tough. Visit Canton road for luxurious buying. Learn to say thanks you! as you have to often this word. There are many islands in HK vicinity where you can escape from your working life and enjoy taking sun bath with beer or some kind of drink you love. Disney Land, Ocean park adding to its fun loving roller coaster rides. If you are tired of weekdays, on Saturday night- go and visit the Lan Kwai Fong to meet people from various part of the World and make friends, hangout with them, get acquainted. Keep Moving on that street  or enter into pub till 3am and after that, its time to go home. Too cheap for me as I have to shed out only HK$ 20 for 20min Mini-bus ride to my home. Wake up in Hangover next morning with bright sunshine or may be rainy day as HK weather is unpredictable. Go to local markets in evening and see the huge crowd walking on the streets with zombies speed and listen some great music on street, watch some stunt person performing stunts to earn livelihood. A Well governed and systematic city. Hassle-free life. Almost spent 6 months living there and enjoyed many colors of life. tried to learn Cantonese, but not my cup of tea. so stuck with English only, that’s fine. Got a friend cum big brother “Sean” (English name and “Wong Hei Man” -his chinese name) always my side to help me whenever needed. needless to mention, this is the best thing that happen to me. Till date we are in touch even though we know, we shall not meet again in future.

to be continued……   Bitter facts will follow in next writing!

 

By: Mr. Nobody

Bullet Bansal (Mr. BB)

“Le Lia Bullet lendi Jeep bech kay” Bought a Bullet Bike against junk Jeep… Mr. bansal has upgraded to Bullet Bansal himself now.. A bike known for its strength and quite popular among the bike lovers. Will Mr. Bansal ..oops “Bullet Bansal” will find some chick on his behind or his rookies will be his partner. Lets wait and watch till the time decides its course.

Lets know about Mr. Bansal little more.. Born in a small town, intelligent but weak in Mathematics unlike a usual “Baniya” who are born mathematicians as per some saying.. chemistry flowing in his nerves from top to bottom.. Little bit more! angry young man adding to his quality but not to his nature.. cool personality with photogenic features when clicked through DSLR camera. Lol!…. a passionate traveler. grown up while sleeping most of the hours of the day.  His childhood  buddy “Mr. T” always by his side .. Both seems to be Mirror copy when it comes to sucking their thumb habit from childhood days which they still carry today with them…

As the time passes, Mr. BB becomes a chemistry teacher in private institute passing his knowledge to new generation and filling up his pockets in terms of remuneration.. till date no stable partner.. girls comes and goes like a camera flash from his life.. Phew!   Now Mr. BB is tired of being single and need a stable partner, onus on him to get married as soon as someone suggest some girl match to his parents.

We will wait for some more time for his story to be completed. till then let him enjoy his Bullet ride!

By: Mr.Nobody

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Show-off: Fake world

We live into a World that is full of monsters and demons!  Indeed!  Everybody is just waiting to eat out the flesh of others disregarding of what will happen to others.  No emotions,  nothing!  Just selfishness!  Whether its your workplace or social place or any other place. People pretend they will remain with you at all times but that’s not true at all. time changes so does people. its just show-off that they are with you, unfortunately they were never with you. Though I know this from my earlier experiences that nothing lasts forever, whether its your friendship, love, any commitment, promises or etc… One day everything will go or will leave you away!  You can’t make right when opposite person has already made up his mind in wrong way for you. You beg them or do anything! You will always be on failure side! Here comes the trust! Now, Will you  be able to trust other person again??? Yes/No? We will never have the right answer at that moment. With time, we shall have.

How can I save myself from theses people!! The people who pretend they are with you and will never leave you! there is no formula to evaluate the trust. You have to take risk in your life by trusting again and again and preparing yourself for the next blow! Once you are enough strong – especially: “mentally” They you can conquer these demons and fight them with your full strength. Its your conscience that will the key to your success at each point of your meeting with them.

Let Bygones be Bygones! True spirit is to live the life! Rise-Fall-Rise-Fall-Rise…….. Never Back-down!

 

By: Mr. Nobody

Bindass Girl in a box

This story is about a Lucknow based girl who is “Manchali” by her nature, passionate to fulfill her world with her own dreamland fantasies. By Manchali, i mean Bindass, straight forward, rookie, Bold and beautiful yet little stubborn adding to her etiquette.

She came to Delhi to pursue her studies after 10th unaware of Delhites miseries she will have to face in coming days. Joined an medical college for some diploma course, precisely Lab technician kind of course. She fell in so-called love with a married man in her college, well I can understand that was just her mere first attachment to some guy. She assumed this is the bright side of her life which will take her to own dreamland  but to her surprise, it wasn’t as the guy was just trying to play some kind of naughty game with her capturing her into an emotional circle. , she even went to depression for 2-3 months, As soon as she recovered from this trauma, now she became a bindass girl, still a long way to learn how to move ahead unharmed. Sooner or later, she will learn this but since she is in her early 20’s (just 21-22), she thinks the society is having any open base, but we know better in with what kind of orthodox society we are into. She is just like a bird always aiming to fly high high higher….and even higher but with no wings surrounded by butchers to cut down her wings as soon as she grow them.

Will she come out of this society box or will accept the traditional thinking and binds herself into it?? What you say? Till date I don’t have any clue about this! May be with time we will have our answers..

Hope One day (hope so very soon if possible) I will be able to bring you the answer to the above question…

 

Let’s continue with the above story!

With the unanswered questions of her life, girl moved ahead. Luckily she got a big opportunity soon and joined as a cabin crew trainee in reputed airline company. She thought now she has got her wings to fly in the sky. But she became handicapped with the nightmares of her past. Sadly, she again went into trauma and lost this job. Phew! Few months later, with family support, she finally joined call center to fulfill her basic monetary needs and standing up for her family. Day-Night-shift made her to crawl and imbalanced her life again, may be she never learnt the art of balancing personal and professional life. Hypocrite society keeps choking her with their BC era thoughts and again the question comes, “Will she be ever able to come out of this so-called judgmental box” ???

 

 

By Mr. Nobody

Ecstasy: Weed/Charas (Cannabis)

Charas! not the 1970’s movie, its the real shit people would love to die for! Well em one of them though a casual Charas smoker! EEsh! A good shit to send people into a new world of their dreams and dilenma! Once you get high, your fear or happiness will come out strongly, increasing your concentration sometimes not always plz! Extent varies people to people.. Some excited guys will find it difficult to digest and may end up saying “i AM GONNA DIE TODAY” but won’t tell the reason why they are behaving. they somewhere are conscious in their unconscious brain part. How good they are! in keeping secrets. 100/100 to those guys.

The best part of getting high is you lift up all your worries for a moment enters into a land where you will find your comfort zone or pretend this is your dreamland unlike beer or whiskey does to a man pushing him to be a lion of that moment. What exactly is this shit!  Though most of the countries put this shit out of their constitutional book and consider it illegal, yet there are few countries where your will have easy access to cannabis openly.. like Weed-heaven i.e. Netherlands… a country where you will find designated coffee shops to smoke weed  and create your own world but don’t put others in trouble else it will be you behind bars with hefty imprisonment or some kind of huge penalty .. or whatever!

Lets talk about Delhi University! whenever I went to my past days, I always visit DSE.. I had my first peg of whiskey and first drag of weed in this compound.. it was easy to approach DSE for me, quite near to my college became my daily habit to visit and smoke..

       Dude:” Morning Professor… Try this one, i Bought this shit yesterday, its really good. Professor replied “No thanks man! I have my own” and took out his roll and lit it with lighter and goes on.. Weed-relationship between a professor and his student. Oh this is real shit. and a beautiful girl asked me “Do you have an extra smoke” she asked for his boyfriend i guess and I replied “i have choti gold-flake” if that gonna serve your purpose, you can have it.. without hesitation she took it and lit it with my lighter.. So, I was wrong! Huh! She borrowed for herself.. New chapter to me! DU girls are open in nature. I know this sounds ridiculous, but i never had an incident where unknown girl have ever asked me  for a smoke.. then it becomes so often to me. Got a smoke friend who used to hold my hand bring me to outside DSE at sutte vala (cigarette selling stall) to have a smoke with me.. Not as much beautiful but the her tittes used to shake up while she moves.. Of fuck! Nobody can take away their eyes from them.. Smoke weed and feel the pleasure… real fun is to have this shit in limits else you may end up sometimes sleeping only..

By: Mr. Nobody

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